Isteri umpama bidadari syurga

Assalamualaikum and hi!

Pernah dengar tentang Kelab Isteri Taat? Dah baca artikel tentang kelab ni semalam?
Jom baca dulu kat link ni:

http://www.bharian.com.my/bharian/articles/Layanmacampelacur_/Article

"Mungkin ada yang akan menilai artikel ini dari sudut positifnya dengan nilai hiperbola iaitu 'pelacur kelas pertama'. Namun, saya merasakan ianya salah pada maksud, mahupun nilai perbandingan seorang isteri yang mempunyai darjat yang jauh lebih tinggi dari pelacur. Nauzubillah.."

"Menjadi isteri ibarat bidadari syurga jauh lebih baik daripada menjadi isteri ibarat pelacur kelas pertama.. Macam mana nak jadi seperti bidadari syurga?Jadikan Al-Quran dan hadis sebagai panduan. cari rujukan dalam buku, memang banyak... macam mana nak jadi pelacur kelas pertama? astagfirullah, jangan sesekali mencari mana-mana rujukan.. "

(Mengolah sedikit kata-kata dari sahabat saya, Haifa Aniqah dan Shahrizul Ayuni. kredit buat mereka. I totally agree.)

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After he shared with the class about this issue,then I just give my own opinion where I disagree with the suggestion of being like"first class prostitute"

After that,

He said: Everyone have their opinion. And the person who said this is a very knowledgeable person in religion, right? (He refer to dr.Rohaya). So, sometimes there is no right or wrong answers. People have their own opinion. It just opinion.

My heart said: Yes, in certain things, there is no wrong or right answers. For example, if someone said that the clothes is beautiful, he is right. But, if another person said that the same clothes is ugly, he is also right.

But,
If we ask a drug addict, , "Do you think that to be a drug addict is good?"
Maybe he might answer," Yes, it nothing bad to be a drug addict. It is not a wrong thing to do."
Do we still want to say that the answer given by the drug addict is correct because it is all just about opinion?

Or,
If we ask a muslimah who is not wearing hijab," Do you think it is ok not to wear hijab?"
"Yes, it's up to ourselves whether we want to wear it or not. It is not wrong not to wear hijab. For me, to be fashionable and up-to-date with fashion is more important"-Is this sound right?

Or,
" I'm enjoy killing people. It such an enjoyable moment to see people in pain"-gosh!

What say u?

As a conclusion, opinion can be either right or wrong, both are acceptable. But in certain aspects (which seems like just an opinion) it still can be totally wrong or totally right since we as a muslim have our own guidelines in order to judge things whether it is right or wrong. Therefore, our opinion must be always based on the views of Islam.

(But he is not a muslim. So, its ok for him to think in that way) But I hope the listener won't be nod their head while listened to this (",) InsyaAllah..


Layyinulharir: Semalam terasa nak kongsi perkara ini di blog, namun saya batalkan hasrat tu. Tapi, bila dalam kelas tadi trainer saya cerita tentang isu ni, saya rasa semangat plak nak share something kat alam maya ni.

Kolej Kediaman Ketiga
Universiti Malaya
8/06/11
12.20 A.M